“I Refuse To Sink” Washer Necklace


I refuse to sink; do you?

This beautiful hand stamped necklace has been especially created for Teddy’s Legacy. If you aren’t familiar with Elle from Feathering The Empty Nest you can read Elle’s and Teddy’s story here: https://www.justgiving.com/fundraising/teddyslegacy £5 from every necklace purchased will be donated to Teddy’s Legacy Just Giving page. Thank-you.

I was lucky enough to bring my 3 boys home from hospital when they were born, Elle wasn’t so lucky and my heart goes out to her. I also hope this saying will resonate with people; I refuse to sink from depression. I have suffered from depression and most recently PND recently. I refuse to let it sink me and I will be wearing my necklace with pride.

Handmade Sterling Silver Washer/Pendant, 1.2mm thick (18g), Outside diameter 22mm, Inside measurement approx 15mm

Hung on a 16″, 18″ or 20″ sterling silver fine trace chain. If you would like a different length chain please let me know.

Why not add a personalised tag too? see listing https://www.sandandseagulls.co.uk/product/personalised-initialletter-tag/

Or, if you would like I can stamp a name or short word on the other side of the washer. Please contact me before ordering to discuss this though as there will be a small additional charge.

Also available as a bangle https://www.sandandseagulls.co.uk/product/i-refuse-to-sink-cuff-bangle/

And a print https://www.sandandseagulls.co.uk/product/i-refuse-to-sink-print/

As with all my items, this one comes with FREE UK delivery. Please note, the turnaround time for this item is approx 5 working days.

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30 reviews for “I Refuse To Sink” Washer Necklace

  1. 5 out of 5

    I absolutely love this necklace. It’s such good quality and looks lovely. It is a lovely bonus to support Teddy’s Legacy. I have lost 4 babies and with other difficulties in my life, this necklace reminds me how far I have come already. I have a long way to go, but the words on this necklace remind me to keep going, I wear it everyday. The service from Sand & Seagulls is fantastic. I have just ordered a ring from you and can’t wait for the that you arrive.

  2. 5 out of 5

    Love this
    Bought for a friends 40th birthday and I can’t think of anything more appropriate for her
    Great quality and equally good service
    Thank you

  3. 5 out of 5

    Absolutely beautiful necklace. I received it as a birthday gift and it’s lovely to know that the purchase is supporting a charity .

  4. 5 out of 5

    I love my new necklace so very much. Sadly I have had 3 miscarriages over the last year and the last one really affected me. This nacklace reminds me now of how far I have come and that I will keep going and I will get there – my journey may just bit that little bit longer than other peoples. I refuse to sink! Also happy that I can support Teddy’s legacy – such a special charity. Thank you xx

  5. 5 out of 5

    I bought this for my daughter and she loves it and we are glad to be supporting a special charity

  6. 5 out of 5

    Lovely necklace. Lovely gift for my friend. So so pleased to be supporting Teddy’s legacy and an independent small business. I only hope someone buys one for me

  7. 5 out of 5

    As a gift for my daughter the wording is very appropriate for her right now = very pleased with it and the service and delivery from Zoe was great! Thank you so much !

  8. 5 out of 5

    As soon as I saw this necklace I knew I needed to buy it for my friend’s birthday. She is currently undergoing chemotherapy for cancer and is so strong. It is really beautiful and is so appropriate for what is going on right now. The communication and delivery was great too! Thanks

  9. 5 out of 5

    Bought this lovely pendant for a friend who has just been diagnosed with breast cancer, it arrived in time for her first chemo session. It is beautifull made and very tactile, she loves it and I am delighted with my purchase. Thank you so much

  10. 5 out of 5

    Such a gorgeous gift for a very special person. I know the words help her each day to stay strong.

  11. 5 out of 5

    Currently going through IVF and have been fighting infertility for over 10 years.
    This necklace is a perfect reminder to myself that I cannot be beaten. I feel it gives me strength when I wear it.
    Arrived very quickly and beautiful quality.

  12. 5 out of 5

    I bought this necklace for a friend who’s Mum sadly has terminal cancer. She messaged me after it arrived telling me it was her little ray of light giving her strength. It was beautiful quality and packaged really nicely to send as a lovely gift. The perfect present for a loved one in a time of need to let them know you’re thinking of them, and sending love and strength.

  13. 5 out of 5

    Love this necklace. It’s great quality and arrived quicker than I expected. I bought it as a gift to myself to remind me of how far I have come and to give me the strength to keep going when things get tough. I love that you can turn the words to face you so they don’t have to be visible to others if you don’t want them to be. Thank you Sand and Seagulls.

  14. 5 out of 5

    So happy with this necklace, it’s got such a special meaning to me having battled on and off with PND since the birth of my daughter 3 years ago. Top quality product and great service. Thank you! I love it.

  15. 5 out of 5

    A perfect reminder. Love this necklace, and everything it stands for, in many situations. A present for myself. Prompt delivery.

  16. 5 out of 5

    I was given this necklace by my daughter for my birthday. In May last year we lost her sister at the age of 22 and I have been very depressed and have ptsd as a result of everything that happened. This necklace is very special and I will wear it to keep with pride xxx

  17. 5 out of 5

    This is a perfect necklace when times are tough, bought this for my teenage daughter as she is having a really tough time…… she loves it . And Zoe has been amazing x

  18. 5 out of 5

    This beautiful pendant is a perfect weight and wonderful quality. I absolutely love it and cannot recommend Sandandseagulls jewellery enough. I have purchased a few items now and I received great service.

  19. 5 out of 5

    Such a beautiful necklace and the words are so poignant for me right now that I see it as my protection against all the negativities in the world. It arrived beautifully packaged as always and Zoe was quick to respond to any query that I had. Worth every penny and the fact a contribution will go towards a good cause is an absolute bonus

  20. 5 out of 5

    I just love my necklace. I saw it at a time in my life when it really struck a chord. I wear it to help me feel strong on my bad days, and even stronger on my good ones. Money well spent, and very happy to contribute to Teddy’s legacy x

  21. 5 out of 5

    I agree with the ladies above. I look down often and read the words out loud. There are plenty of trying moments in a day and this necklace gives me a spur on. I also have detached mine and added it to a longer chain I had for a different look. It’s so simple, stripped back and a little thinking symbol. Thanks Zoe

  22. 5 out of 5

    Absolutely love this necklace, I have worn in everyday since it arrived and if I am having a bit of a wobble i just have a quick look down and think “I can do this” and power on. Brilliant little saying which empowers people regardless of what they may be going through. I have received so many comments since wearing it. Thank you Sand and Seagulls.

  23. 5 out of 5

    Fantastic necklace , I purchased 2 , 1 for me and 1 for my daughter , great service from Zoe , I love mine and would recommend to anyone xx

  24. 5 out of 5

    I love this necklace and all it stands for. It arrived really quickly and in really simple pretty packaging. People always comment on it when I wear it.
    Plus it’s super shiny and pleases my inner magpie!

  25. 5 out of 5

    Love it! Perfect present for a perfect friend. Thank you @sandandseagulls

  26. 5 out of 5

    Since it arrived I have worn this everyday and I feel empowered! Small things make a big difference. The silver chain sits perfectly and goes with everything!

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